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Blunt

Posted by Jerry on December 12, 2006

Toward the Sun

Gawd, I almost cry everytime I listen to James Blunt’s Goodbye My Lover.

I have never spoken of these things before–not on my blog at least. What makes me bring them up now, I’m not sure. Perhaps, the sense of finality is dawning on me, that my life has irreversibly moved on–and so have the lives of those who were once part of mine.

What hurts me the most–and it hurts to the core everytime I am reminded of it–is the utter absence not only of my lover next to me but also of the common world that we once shared between us. I cannot even visit the same restaurant we so loved to frequent and order a Thai iced tea and summon his thoughts as I sip alone in silence.

Even the bitter solace of seeking those places in heavy solitude is robbed from me. Even that moonlight is denied me–by the planetarium where we had sat late into the night. All I have are thoughts–memories–ghosts. I do not even have the physical reminders of a love once cherished–not the sunset under which we buried our tired spirits after a long day’s work, nor the sunrise that we so eagerly awaited after an all-night out; not the expansive view out the third-floor balcony on which we stood silently in each other’s arms, nor the flitting images outside our car window as we went on our many roadtrips.

I can’t even walk the streets you walk, or pass by your house and hope to catch a glimpse of you.

Indeed, I long to simply see “Hawaiian Waffles” on a restaurant menu again, or a Banana split sundae. But no, nothing. Absolutely nothing around me relents. And that is what hurts the most. I am not afraid that I might forget you. I am afraid that, under this unrelenting environment that demands that I leave my memories behind, I might never leave your soul.

*The picture above is not of James Blunt or from any of his albums. It’s a picture I took of the one who is the subject of this post.

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6 Responses to “Blunt”

  1. Innommable said

    Jerry, this post made me cry.

  2. Charlotte said

    I know I can easily turn around and say this to you, seeing as you are 2 feet away. But…

    This song really captures it…It gave me an idea of what it would be like long before the real thing happened. I love Blunt.

  3. Ergo said

    Innommable, it apparently doesn’t take much to make you cry! 😉

  4. Innommable said

    Are you calling me a cry-baby? *Sniff* *Sniff*

  5. Be? said

    I have read a good amount of your blogs on this website, and I was just wondering when I would come across something that showed your vulnerbility. This is an amazing description of your feelings. I am very impressed by your inner thoughts of a broken heart. I just wanted to let you know that.

  6. Ergo said

    Be?

    Thanks for your kind words. I’m normally quite an expressive and emotional person; however, not out of any forced habit, I’m not expressive of emotional extremes or intensities–of whatever kind. It’s involuntary.

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